If we take a look at our daily lives we will probably discover, perhaps with surprise, some with known resignation, that we usually choose between the alternatives that we have available or those that are offered to us at a given moment, or we simply search among the options that we have . they leave us Choosing is very cool, it offers an addictive feeling of freedom without major side effects than the ignorance of what we passively reject , without knowing it, many other alternatives that we have not even had the opportunity to sniff. Good decisions do not depend so much on the choice itself as on the options we had when deciding.
The very fact of having alternatives
And the ability to look for new ones, has a lot to do with being happy. But be careful, happiness is difficult, finding options and opportunities is difficult. And that is where we begin to pay with sweat: investigating, weighing, knowing, without letting ourselves be fooled by inertia and the siren song of suburban love. Good advice, good professional guidance. Has no added value by working with what exists. With what company data the client already has on the table. One of the best guidance magician tricks is to teach how to take unknown rabbits, new rabbits out of your own hat. After learning about a wide variety of occupations. Professions, regulated and non-regulated training specialties, job offers or career.
Work and personal alternatives
Perhaps the client decides to keep his or her usual stuffed rabbit. The one that has accompanied him in his dreams and in their sleep. Great. Then he will have CHOSEN, yes, with capital letters, and he will move forward knowing what he leaves behind and BRB Directory convinced that he is pursuing a valuable objective. Good decisions depend on what you choose, but above all on what you decide to reject. Generating alternatives is the most difficult job in coaching , but it is also the one that produces the most change. The writer of The Little Prince already said it: To see clearly, just change the direction of your gaze.
But precisely changing direction is the most difficult due to the inertia of habits and the comfort of settling for what you have at hand. I admit that I am somewhat meditative, somewhat introspective, all existentialist. On Friday the provisional list came out, and surely in a few months I will become a career civil servant (is that what they say?) of the Andalusian Employment Service. Will it be a love forever? An interested relationship? A committed marriage? A five-year scroll? I think I will continue meeting others from time to time. Just in case he stops loving me.